August 02, 2013

The Myth of the Supermom

By Shazia Nigar

This year on Mother’s Day I came across a cartoon strip that I thought was appropriate for my mother. Two kids were peering into their mother’s closet in absolute awe. They had just discovered a ‘Superwoman’ costume in there. One of them says “ So that’s how she does it…” […]

October 09, 2007

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THIS STORY Natural Forms Of Cialis, is both old and new, traditional and modern. The scapegoating, finger-pointing and name-calling of those who are different, those who threaten the social order, those who happen to have a female face. In the past two months, there have been at least two instances of witch lynching in India reported in the mainstream media; I wonder how many more have gone unnoticed. The most recent one was in Bihar. A 60-year old tribal woman was accused by villagers in Bihar of practicing witchcraft and beaten to death by them, Natural Forms Of Cialis mexico. Apparently, her ’spells’ couldn’t cure their mindsets, Natural Forms Of Cialis.

A witchcraft practitioner identified her as the one who was responsible for all maladies of the village.

A case has been registered against six villagers under the Prevention of Witchcraft Practices Act. No arrest has been yet.

I wasn’t aware that there was such an Act; Bihar’s is the first of its kind, passed in 1999. The name of this Act is pretty strange and belies the fact that it’s meant to protect those accused of witchcraft and punish the offending name-callers and abusers. Natural Forms Of Cialis, A Jharkhand NGO, Free Legal Aid Committee (FLAC), campaigns against the practice of witch-hunting and offers aid to those accused.

An article at OneWorld South Asia explains how, unsurprisingly, Natural Forms Of Cialis ebay, old, widowed, or otherwise unprotected women are more vulnerable to accusations of witchcraft. It sounds too familiar -- those who are not conforming in some way become targets.

Superstition is often the chief reason. This factor is strongly linked to the lack of medical care and awareness in rural areas. In absence of health care facilities, there is exploitation by ‘ojhas’ or witch doctors who profit from the villagers’ ignorance, Natural Forms Of Cialis.

Land grabbing, property disputes and revenge are other major causes behind such accusations in most states. The above examples reflect that such labelling has become a common form of violence against women, 10mg Natural Forms Of Cialis. It is now a pretext for suppressing women and gaining personal interests.

In many backward districts of Rajasthan, such as Dungarpur, Banswara, Kota, Udaipur, Tonk, Natural Forms Of Cialis paypal, Chittorgarh and Bhilwara, it has been observed that women who are mentally ill or show abnormal behaviour are often branded as witches and ill treated by society.

This issue is a very complex one: the co-mingling of ignorance and fear, greed and malignance. Natural Forms Of Cialis, It sounds only too similar to all the dowry-related stories, be it harassment or death. One side, the majority, seeks to wield power over the weaker party.

It’s a coincidence that I just finished reading Paulo Coelho’s new book, The Witch of Portobello. For those of you familiar with his work, 500mg Natural Forms Of Cialis, you may know that it is always of a mystical and penetrating quality despite his simple style. As a feminist, I am quite fascinated by the emergence of a distinct literary curiosity with goddess worship — Dan Brown’s fabulously popular The Da Vinci Code would also fall in this category. Could one go so far as to say that people are seeking alternatives to the paradigm of male domination on a large scale, Natural Forms Of Cialis.

That’s what Coelho seems to be insinuating, at least to some extent. It is on the one hand, a response to the violence and destruction enacted in the name of organised religion and that male, 250mg Natural Forms Of Cialis, all-powerful God. On the other hand, it is an appreciation, a re-valuation of the feminine as sacred, of the creative force as a motherly one. I realise this dichotomy is not entirely incompatible with Hinduism, which boasts many female goddesses. Natural Forms Of Cialis, However it is interesting to see how this worship on a spiritual plane translates into reality.

From the gender perspective, it is difficult to get into the terrain of feminine=motherly, 750mg Natural Forms Of Cialis, because this tends to stick women in restrictive roles and responsibilities with a lack of options. (Then again, perhaps these roles are only restrictive because society at large doesn’t attribute them with the worth that they’re due?) At any rate, I have difficulty rationalising an appreciation of feminine qualities -- maternal or otherwise -- because I am wary of gender roles. They usually tend to be more limiting than liberating. One passage in the book is particularly relevant here:

There are women who say: “I’m not going to do the washing up, let the men do it.” Fine, 30mg Natural Forms Of Cialis, let the men do it if they want to, but that has nothing to do with equality. There’s nothing wrong with doing simple things, although if I were to publish an article tomorrow saying everything I think; I’d be accused of working against the feminist cause, Natural Forms Of Cialis. Nonsense. As if washing up or wearing a bra or having someone open or close a door could be humiliating to me as a woman. The fact is, I love it when a man opens the door for me. According to etiquette this means: “She needs me to do this because she’s fragile,” but in my soul is written: “I’m being treated like a goddess. Natural Forms Of Cialis, I’m a queen.” I’m not here to work for the feminist cause, because both men and women are a manifestation of the Mother, the Divine Unity. No one can be greater than that.’ (p182)
Without going into the details of the plot (because I do recommend reading this book), 20mg Natural Forms Of Cialis, I’d like to bring up several points for discussion. If simple things are fine and good, then why do men get to do them less than women. Why do they get to go out, have fancy jobs and power and make the women do the housework. Also, most feminists say that gender equality would benefit both men and women, Natural Forms Of Cialis craiglist, but the popular perception is that feminists are anti-men. And lastly, how is one to convince men that gender equality is in their favour, when they may be content with the way things are currently.
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