October 10, 2012
Some weeks ago, I watched two prominent women in the national spotlight, who spoke to American audiences in their roles as longtime partners of the men contesting the 2012 Presidential election. In speeches that were televised across the United States to an audience of millions, first Ann Romney and then Michelle Obama [...]
October 01, 2012
In October, we kick off Violence Against Women (VAW) Awareness Month on the blogosphere. VAW Awareness Month began as a completely voluntary, yet cohesive online campaign in 2011, when a group of dedicated bloggers/volunteers decided to band together and raise awareness about this social anathema that isn’t going away in a hurry. [...]
June 22, 2010
Free Trail Of Cialis, THE DVD OF LOVE, Sex aur Dhokha has been lying around at home for some time, but it was only over this weekend that I got around to watching it. Directed by Dibakar Banerjee (of Khosla ka Ghosla fame), LSD is actually three stories in one, with peripheral links to each other, Free Trail Of Cialis india.
The first one is a mushy love story, the second an MMS sex scandal and the third, Free Trail Of Cialis ebay, about the media's voracious appetite for 'stings'. It is the second and third stories that really hold your attention; the first one is slow to heat up and I almost forwarded a little of the first 10-15 minutes. Yet, my mind keeps going back to it, 250mg Free Trail Of Cialis. (This post isn't a movie review though.)
*Spoilers here, beware!*
When the love story of Rahul, aspiring director at a film institute and Shruti, the "Simran" of his film begins, it is hard not to think of this love story as more a paean to DDLJ than anything else, Free Trail Of Cialis. Cheesy like the film they are making, it is hard to imagine that Rahul and Shruti really love anything beyond the feeling of being in love. Free Trail Of Cialis japan, And yet, given the conservative family Shruti comes from, there is no possibility of their dating or getting to know each other. Love must lead to an elopement and marriage almost immediately, Free Trail Of Cialis craiglist. Rahul's blithe confidence that after marriage, the family will "come around", Free Trail Of Cialis paypal, is almost revolting to watch in its stupidity. Free Trail Of Cialis, The end, when it comes, is gruesome, even though nothing of this honour killing is really shown.
Just yesterday, the Supreme Court has issued a notice asking the Central Government (and a few states), why they are doing nothing to combat the recent spate of honour killings.
The thing about us Indians is that we pride ourselves on our superior 'Indian values'; we lose no chance to deride Western societies for their (alleged) lack of affection, Free Trail Of Cialis usa, 'family values' and morality. Nowhere is this more evident than in our smug attitude to the upbringing of children. 750mg Free Trail Of Cialis, It is so common to hear people talking as though Indians are the only people that know how to bring up children well - everywhere else, children are neglected, spoilt, abused and grow up to have no love for their parents, 200mg Free Trail Of Cialis.
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Gajar-ka-halwa aside, we need to stop kidding ourselves. I suppose we have good and bad parents like everywhere else, but no magic beans that qualify us as the best parents on earth.
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July 17, 2009
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Some years earlier, this act of wishing a sasroo upon me would have irked me no end, Retin A During Pregnancy. Retin A During Pregnancy australia, Now it must be old age and its consequent mellowing effects because today I was only mildly annoyed and half-amused that educated, supposedly liberal women in an urbane setting still think of the seeming security a husband and his family can offer as their foremost wish for me.
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July 16, 2009
Acidophilis Cipro, LATELY, I SEEM TO BE hearing a lot about the break-up of marriages and subsequent divorces. There was the Hiphop Grandmom writing on incompatible alliances and how they've led to the breakdown of marriages. Then, today, over at the F Word Blog, I read a piece on how British Tory party members want a provision for a 'three month cooling off' period in divorce cases. If you look at the comments section on HHG's piece as well, you will see one line of thought that couples are getting divorced "too easily" or for "frivolous" reasons.
In the last 3 years, 10mg Acidophilis Cipro, I've seen a number of people in my own circle applying for divorce. Now, the plural of anecdote is not data, but considering the friends I've seen and human nature and Indian society, I feel that people who are going in for a divorce are not doing so for frivolous reasons or on a whim. You may not agree with their specific reason, or you may think they should have tried harder, but whatever it is, I feel divorce is still a very hard route to take, not the easy way out.
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One. Marriage is still the holy grail. 40mg Acidophilis Cipro, However accomplished we are, whatever shape our careers may be in, marriage is still presented as pretty much the biggest thing in women's lives and it is drilled into our heads that a marriage is something we must keep at any cost. Because of this, most women will hesitate to think of divorce, unless the situation really calls for one.
Two. Marriage is not just about two individuals. In India at least, most marriages, Acidophilis Cipro canada, even 'love marriages' are not just between two individuals. Acidophilis Cipro, The family is involved in a big way, the wedding ceremony is a huge event and there are still very high personal and social costs to breaking it up (beginning with not getting your jewellery back to having your in-laws spread malicious rumours about you within the community, it all happens.) With so many people involved, the divorce can rarely be amicable. Not just that, chances are your own family will be the strongest voices urging you not to go in for a divorce. For people to disregard all that and go in for divorce - well, that says something about the marriage, doesn't it.
Three. Both for men and women (perhaps more so for the latter), 150mg Acidophilis Cipro, while 'divorcee' may not carry the kind of stigma it once did, its not exactly acceptable either. If the person wants to remarry and goes down the traditional arranged route again, in almost every case, they (esp. women) will need to look for a divorcee or a widower. Few single people would be willing to 'risk' going with someone who's been divorced once, Acidophilis Cipro. Having to marry a divorcee or a widower is not of course in itself a bad thing, but what I'm trying to say is - the choice basket for a divorcee, Acidophilis Cipro uk, esp a divorced woman gets considerably narrow.
Four. Economic dependence. Let's assume this is not an issue for many younger, well-off couples where both partners are working. But, if there are kids in the equation, Acidophilis Cipro paypal, it is highly likely that the woman would have either slowed down on the career track, lost a few years or given up her career altogether, all impacting her earnings. Acidophilis Cipro, It's not an easy decision to take, to go from a financially-secure-if-unhappy home to making your own way again, especially if you are at an age where restarting your career is difficult. Also, not all families allow women to work, so there will be many younger women who've simply never worked outside the home in their lives. What about poorer people. Here in fact, 250mg Acidophilis Cipro, women are more likely to be working and supporting the family, so they are not totally dependent. But, even today, few women own assets like farmland or property that can be a safety net. Plus, go back to point number three, Acidophilis Cipro.
Five. Post-purchase rationalization. Acidophilis Cipro craiglist, Not just in India, but everywhere in the world, people invest of themselves significantly in a marriage. If they've made the choice of partner themselves, they're likely to take some pride in it. And when there is pride in one's choice, there will always be some amount of post-purchase rationalization. He's not alcoholic, just someone who likes his drink, 50mg Acidophilis Cipro. Acidophilis Cipro, She will give up her career eventually. It's human nature to do this. People don't like to just abandon the choices they've made, because that says something about them. In the Indian context, in arranged marriages, this is one reason why parents are often so strongly in favour of working on the marriage. Acidophilis Cipro usa, Considering all of this, is it time we stopped thinking of those going in for divorces as silly people fighting because one person doesn't leave the toilet seat up. Let's acknowledge the reality of people's lives which is that marriages break down for a variety of reasons, few outsiders known the inside story, no one really asks for emotional upheaval in their lives and not every marriage is worth saving.
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